I'll Be There

I am watching Michael Jackson’s “This Is It” movie, which documents his rehearsals for the final curtain call tour, one that never happened. As we know, MJ died of a drug overdose, so this show can only be seen in the movie. His lyrics are moving and magical, but one song inspired me tonight, “I’ll Be There.” Aren’t those great words? If Caregiver’s had a theme song, this would be the song they would sing to their loved one. I love the lyrics, “Where there is love/I’ll be there/I’ll be there to protect/with unselfish love that respects you/let me fill your heart with joy and laughter/just call my name/ and I’ll be there.”

At first, I was going to blog that the best words a Caregiver can hear are “I’ll Be There”, but changed my mind. It’s future-ing, and as anyone disappointed in the past can tell you, people make promises, well intentioned, that they do not keep. The words, “I’m here for you” are slightly better. The best words a Caregiver can hear, aren’t words, their silent deeds. The friends and family that just show up, with arms open, offering to help. The card that comes in the mail, the call, the effort that someone makes to let you know they are in it with you. Sounds easier than it actually is, this I know. It takes effort for people to take the time to help others, because everyone’s so busy, and a little more disconnected, and maybe a little more selfish with their time.

For the people that do support you, say a “thank you”, and make a mental note of the kindness. Those are the relationships worth your time and effort. Someday, they may need some help and you will show your love, without words. You will show up. “You’ll be there.”